Nikah Siri phenomenon in Indonesia (Ages Past and Present)
Ancient unregistered marriages or marriage to another religion just as religion was already there. Many couples do not have a marriage certificate, but they live together to reproduce and until death do us part. Even ancient man in a religious marriage, but they are very responsible.
Unregistered marriages is quite different today. Man marriage men siri most actors only justifies his intention lust on the women they love. So they come and go at will. In this case the government is not able to do anything because of lawful religion. I am not against marriage siri, all rights respectively. Only an expression of concern if unregistered marriages are considered the easiest way to channel the desire or polygamy.
Not long ago, the media in Indonesia crowded with wedding news siri Garut Regent 40-year-old with Fani, a young girl aged 18 years. Four days later divorced by SMS because the isti not a virgin. (Next time tell the bride pack regents siri virginity test before yes, new unregistered marriage). The divorced woman as easy because there were a virgin. Good heavens ....
Recalled the story of the past an owner of a boarding school in Jakarta, who married a widow disebuah siri with a five star hotel. Marriage just overnight. The next day when I meet such people do not know each other.
Why unregistered marriages become a trend in Indonesia? Though clearly the most disadvantaged women, if the intention is only to vent future husband desires with halal. Unfortunately there are still many women who want to be treated unjustly mena. Possible economic factors or want to live happy without hard work. Moreover, if the marriage took an official or well-known people, many female NOD NOD alone. They only regret after dumped mediated shouting for attention.
Otherwise there is no doubt that many Indonesian Muslim women also unregistered marriages with foreigners, then married and their marriage officially registered only in the country of her husband. They live in harmony and peace to reproduce.
Many people say that it is better than adultery unregistered marriages. Exactly what they said, but that does not mean he can go around. Oh man do you know that the promise of marriage is not just an agreement between two human men and women, but also a covenant between man and God, the angels witnessed. If a man often unregistered marriage and divorce, it means he's male cat robber who brought religion to justify.
There have been many examples of women who are victims of siri marriage, why they do not want to learn? In my opinion betel actor married his intention merely justifies the marital relationship is very harassing women. Betel wife had no rights at all, every time a man can go, quite divorced via speech or text, she began to wiggle his wife find a new siri.
Hopefully Indonesian woman who is available, willing to learn from those who are victims of siri marriage. Do not allow yourselves to be humbled by the man's wife status siri, unless you are ready to bear all the risks. Who else is able to protect and appreciate ourselves than our own.
Indonesian marriage betel (Nikah Siri)
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